So, as a single woman (Yes, fellas, I am single) I have been doing a lot of self-reflection on why I am still single. I mean, I have a job, no kids, I’m kind of cute, and I have a great personality (So I think). So, after receiving an email asking the question “What turns Men off?”. I hit the drawing board. I asked 10 male friends what they thought. The question I presented them with was “What are 5 things a woman does that turns men off?” Their answer surprised me because I expected things like: not cooking, bad in bed or too clingy but I was wrong.

The 5 things that these men said were:

· Talking without Listening (AKA Nagging)
· Being overly Jealous
· Wearing too much Make-up & Weave
· Body odor
· Laziness

So, ladies make sure you examine yourself and if you exhibit any of these traits you need to make a change. I know what some of y’all are going to say, “Why do I have to change?” “Why can’t he accept me for me?” Trust me I felt the same but as I grow older I realize that sometimes we are the problem and our stubbornness runs away good men. Refusing to change is one of the biggest flaws a person can have. It is important to have an open and honest discussion in order to fix problems within any relationship. And always remember Patience and Communication is KEY.

Be blessed Dudes and Dudettes.


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